Learn To Approach A Beautiful Woman

Have you ever had the experience of seeing a very striking woman that you wanted to meet, but some little voice in your head kept trying to talk you out of it? And although you wanted to go over and meet her, you became paralyzed and you didn't do it. Then some other guy came along and walked right up and started a conversation with her. WTF?

The only difference between you and the guy who actually approached the girl is that he was THINKING DIFFERENT THOUGHTS than you. That's all it was.

I'm going to show you how you can get more dates - and women - into your life starting today!

Here are 5 EFFECTIVE Techniques to Approaching Any Woman - Anywhere, Anytime... that most guys will never know about because they don't know how attraction REALLY works. These 5 technique will help you to get rid of your fear of approaching women and you can use them to get into a conversation with her, anytime and anywhere.

APPROACH STEP 1: Obey the Three Second Rule...

When you see a woman you want to meet, you only have about 3 seconds before that voice in your head tries to talk you out of it. If you wait too long, the 'voice' gets control over you and you're paralyzed. Don't let it get you...

The second you see a woman you want to meet, start walking over to talk to her (and her friends). You might think you need more time to "think of something" to say, but you don't. What's really happening is that your brain is getting trapped in the anxiety of the moment, and fear wants to stop you.

Just start walking over towards her. The only thing you need is faith in yourself and a good opening line, and I'm about to give you both...

APPROACH STEP 2: Confident Body Language...

The second you start moving towards her, throw your chest out and your shoulders back. Lift your chin so that your head is high with confidence. Repeat to yourself, "I am an ALPHA MALE, I am an ALPHA MALE". This might feel awkward at first, but that's only because you aren't used to it. (Don't over do it, cause you'll look like a clown) When you fix your posture, your confidence will actually move up a notch or two as well. This is because we link emotional states in our mind to physical states in our body. Now you're ready.

APPROACH STEP 3: Set a TIME Limit...

You need to feel safe when you walk up to a women. What causes most of your anxiety is the thought that you could be rejected or look foolish. By giving yourself (and them) a limit to how long you'll talk to them, you actually lower your anxiety level and you will relax.

Now, you simply make this the first thing out of your mouth:

"I was just on my way out, but..." or "I was just going to meet up with my friend, but..."

All you're doing here is giving her a context for your approach. Ladies are always going to want to know the answer to the question "Why are you here talking to me?"

By approaching in this manner, you're also telling them that you have somewhere else to go, which makes YOU less likely to panic when you start the conversation. Remember - you've got a ripcord that will allow you to safely parachute out of the approach. This will instantly give you the confidence you need.

APPROACH STEP 4: Begin the conversation...

Now, I'm going to give you a priceless, guaranteed opening that works just about every time. It's easy, it's painless, and you can now get rid of that "what do I say?" excuse in your head that stops you from approaching women.

You ready? Here's what you say:

You walk up and say to her, "I just wanted to let you know that you have a really nice energy about you. My name is..."

And then introduce yourself. She'll give you her name, and then you simply ask a quick, funny question about wherever it is that the two of you are meeting.

If you're in the mall, you could say: "So you came here to wear your Visa card out?" or "Do you shoplift here often? (smile)" If you're in da club, you can say, "So you came here to recruit people for your bible study group, right?" Be creative, get it?

Don't try to be too clever with this, you don't need to be! All you need to do is get a little laugh
so that you break her tension just enough to show you're a cool dude, because you want to get to the next step quickly and get outta there...

APPROACH STEP 5: Close and make your getaway...

Your goal is to get her invested in the interaction so that she has something to lose if she doesn't talk to you again. Start to tell her an interesting, colorful story...but don't finish it. This investment she feels must exceed her built in fear that you might be just another complication in her life.

This is how you stop the "flaking" that women do...!

These are very effective techniques, but it takes a little practice to get it down. The best way I've found is to find something you have in common that SHE is interested in, so keep your eyes and your ears open for some kind of promising payoff.

Get her phone number! If you can, hand her your phone and ask her to put her number in it, and then ring her right there so that she can program your name in her phone. (This avoids her seeing a number she doesn't recognize later on...) Mission Accomplished!
There are many psychological and seduction techniques that can be used to make any woman attracted to you instantly. But first, there is one secret that every guy must know when attracting women. Ready?

Here it is:
Always do something that's not ordinary.

Remember, mediocrity is the one thing you never want to be. If you're going to do something, do it great. Be outstanding at whatever you decide to do. If you want to attract women, don't settle for the usual stuff; it just won't cut it and everyone else is already doing just that. Stand out and be recognized by the ladies by being extraordinary.

Many men get the girl by using their good looks. But what if you're just an ordinary, no-so-good-looking guy? Well, there's the root of your problem right there! You are not ordinary, by no means. You may think that you're not good looking, but beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, right? That means that this shouldn't be a problem unless you want to date yourself. Duh!

If you're an average guy without movie star looks, you can still get a woman to like you. First, you have to understand woman and how they think. Attraction for a woman is completely different than it is for a man. It gets really simple once you understand the 8 female types.

Each female type has their own personality and if you want to make her attracted to you then you better know how she thinks and what's important to her attraction thought processes. Learn which female type she is and pay close attention to her communication, whether it be in her conversation or simply in her body language. Both of these methods of communication will give you important tips on how you should approach her. This will also enable you to find out more about how compatible you are with her, which is important if you're thinking about making her yours, either for a one night stand or a serious relationship.

Remember, every woman wants what they can't have. Therefore, it's better to be able to convey to her that you have friends and are associated with the cool crowd, and you already have an exciting life without her. Remember, women will accept you because they like being with you.

Most women are used to having men melt in their presence and telling them how beautiful they are, so you will simply be 'just another guy' if you do the same. You only get 10 seconds to make a great first impression.

You shouldn't stand around for too long if you've seen a woman that you do want to approach. Just go for it. When considering approaching any woman, always follow the 3second rule.

You don't need to wait for eye contact. Nor should you wait for her to notice you, create the opportunity rather than waiting for an opportunity to present itself. You simply see something you like and you go for it. If you can't think of anything to say, start with "Hi." Practice this, and have a default opener ready for all situations if you want to give yourself more confidence and less reason to hesitate.

Get started today by studying and learning the 8 Female types.
And the rest becomes fun and games for you.